This is such a wonderful book that I’m reposting my review.
I was thinking today of some of my greatest influences, even as a child. Dr. King, Selma, Maya, Mahalia and Dinah Washington. For some reason, maybe reincarnation? I have always felt a pull. The first time I heard Dinah sing, “This Bitter Earth”, I cried. When I heard Mahalia sing, “It is No Secret”, I cried. Maya’s “Still I Rise”, Dr King’s “I Have A Dream”, and when I learned of the events in Selma, I cried. And recently, after reading Small Great Things. I don’t cry easily, I really don’t. And I can’t stand racism, bigotry and xenophobia.
Back to Small Great Things. This book moved me to tears. It is sad, poignant, though-provoking, touching, gripping and compelling. Without a doubt, this book will be on my favorites shelf.
I have often said that I am “colorblind and a humanist”. I very much believe that everyone should be regarded equally with respect. To me, we are all God’s children. Black, white, gay, straight, Hispanic, Asian, Muslim or Mormon none of it matters to me as neither does creed or religion. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, I believe you should be able to live your life, in peace.
Ruth Jefferson is a labor and delivery nurse at a Connecticut hospital with more than twenty years’ experience. During her shift, Ruth begins a routine checkup on a newborn, only to be told a few minutes later that she’s been reassigned to another patient. The parents are white supremacists and don’t want Ruth, who is African American, to touch their child. The hospital complies with their request, but the next day, the baby goes into cardiac distress while Ruth is alone in the nursery. Does she obey orders or does she intervene? The infant ends up dying and Ruth is charged with murder and committing a hate crime.
Kennedy McQuarrie, a white public defender, takes her case but gives unexpected advice: Kennedy insists that mentioning race in the courtroom is not a winning strategy. Conflicted by Kennedy’s counsel, Ruth tries to keep life as normal as possible for her family—especially her teenage son—as the case becomes a media sensation. As the trial moves forward, Ruth and Kennedy must gain each other’s trust, and come to see that what they’ve been taught their whole lives about others—and themselves—might be wrong.
A couple of poignant statements:
“I am not a racist, Ruth. And I understand that you’re upset, but it’s a little unfair of you to take it out on me, when I’m just trying to do my best—my professional best—to help you. For God’s sake, if I’m walking down a street and a Black man is coming toward me and I realize I’m going the wrong way, I keep going the wrong direction instead of turning around so he won’t automatically think I’m afraid of him.” “That’s overcompensating, and that’s just as bad,” I say. “You say you don’t see color…but that’s all you see. You’re so hyperaware of it, and of trying to look like you aren’t prejudiced, you can’t even understand that when you say race doesn’t matter all I hear is you dismissing what I’ve felt, what I’ve lived, what it’s like to be put down because of the color of my skin.”
“Active racism is telling a nurse supervisor that an African American nurse can’t touch your baby. It’s snickering at a black joke. But passive racism? It’s noticing there’s only one person of color in your office and not asking your boss why. It’s reading your kid’s fourth-grade curriculum and seeing that the only black history covered is slavery, and not questioning why. It’s defending a woman in court whose indictment directly resulted from her race…and glossing over that fact, like it hardly matters.”
Oh my God. I am guilty of that and I am sorry. I would never intentionally dismiss what anyone has lived through, especially the black community. A tweet today from the Women’s March: “Throughout history, violence has been committed and justified in the name of white womanhood. Terence Crutcher is no exception.”
I remember Dr. King saying “if you’re not part of the solution, you’re part of the problem.” And I am left with the question, what can I do to make a difference?
Great review. Well thought out. And good content and questions.
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Thank you James. That’s high praise indeed
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Wonderful review.
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Thank you Linda.
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Great review. Makes me want to add it to my TBR list. Also takes me back to my “10 Lessons” post I wrote last year about growing up Black.
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Thank you. It is without a doubt, one of the best books I’ve read. I just learned it will be a movie starring the wonderful, lovely Viola Davis.
I’m going to read your 10 lessons post
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Thanks. Here it is:
https://marquessamatthews.com/2017/02/18/lessons-your-parents-may-not-have-taught-you/
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The plot sounds very interesting and (unfortunately) believable still.
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I can’t recommend it enough. And yes, sadly, too believable. The author, in her notes, states that it was partly based on a true story.
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Sheesh!
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Great review, this was one of my favourite books at the moment, definitely one to make you think!
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Thanks! It’s so easy to write about the ones that break your heart and make you think. Oh! And I read that it will be made into a movie starring Viola Davis as Ruth and Julia Roberts as Kennedy. I hope Octavia Spencer will be considered for Ruth’s sister. Although, Queen Latifah would be good too.
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What a great question, Mama Cass. I love that you asked that. I am sending so many blessings to the answers that come from your heart.
For me, one of the things I do is to speak kindness best I can, starting with myself. To forgive myself for judging …. to do my best to see the good no matter what the conditions. And to accept and love.
Thanks for this post. It reminded me especially to see the good. I appreciate that. 🙂
Blessings, and smiles,
Debbie
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Thanks for following my blog. It is much appreciated.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Nicely done and thank you for following GrewNSpew.
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Ah, the eyes are tired. Thank you for following BrewNSpew. 🌻
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Thank you for sharing this. Very touching indeed. Martin Luther King, Jr. has some amazing calls to action … there’s also one about forgiveness being a constant attitude. Have a great week. Good to connect with you. Debbie
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I saw a great bumper sticker that said Make America Whole Again. We desperately need forgiveness and healing. Thanks
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❤ Thanks Mama Cass!! I have one that says "Commit Random Acts of Kindness" ❤
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Reblogged this on Aspen Tree Book Reviews and commented:
This is such a wonderful book that I’m reposting my review.
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Oh my!
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We should always think of how we can be part of the solution. I’ll be on the look out for this book.
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Hi! You are the 365 Daily Challenge “Recommended Blogger” to know today. Just wanted to give you a heads up, thank you for all the great chat and interaction and let you know the post will come out later today. You should receive a “ping-back” notification when it is posted. 🙂 -j
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Hey Superman! How lovely to start the day with that, thank you! Hope all is well in your world. Btw, could you tell me how to do pingback? Thanks
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You are welcome. How to include a pingback in your post? Or how to receive one? As you don’t need to do anything to receive one. It will just show up as a comment in the notification section like this one does.
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To send one, if you are including a “link” to someone’s blog or website, pick a specific post as opposed to just the main intro page on their side. For example, to pingback me, you’re link would be:
https://thisismytruthnow.com/2017/08/11/novel-father-figure-week-6-friday-august-11th-2017/
instead of just
https://thisismytruthnow.com
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Oh!!! That’s what I’ve been doing wrong! Ok, now I get it! Thanks Superman! Hugs! 🤗🤗
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Hugs!
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Great review! This book caused me to have some extreme emotions at times. Leave it to Jodi Picoult to capture someone like that. One of my favorites. ❤ Thanks for sharing…
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I don’t normally read Jodi Picoult, although my daughter loves her. This review makes me want to add this to my TBR books. I found you from Jay at This Is My Truth Now. Hello!
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Hi! I hadn’t read her works before and the others I tried after I didn’t enjoy but this is a definate must read IMO. Jay’s a doll, isn’t here?
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I haven’t read a book by Jodi Picoult in years and have put this one on my reading list. Honest review giving us a lot to think about. -Molly
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Thanks Molly!
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Excellent review!
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Thanks Bette. Nice to meet you
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Same here, Mama Cass! 🙂
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Nice review. But I confess, I no longer read this author. For me, she is writing the same story over and over again. Though, I still love her earlier work.
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This is the only books of hers I’ve read, I think. But I know what you mean, for me it’s the same with Nora Roberts and her trilogies.
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Excellent review of an excellent book. Will never forget this one by Ms. Picoult. One of her best.
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Thank you! It’s proof that books can change our perceptions and lives.
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