What I Believe

I believe:

That we are spiritual creatures on a human journey

That most animals are more intelligent than humans

In peace, acceptance and respect of everyone, regardless of the skin color, nationality, who you love, what gender you identify with, religion, or political party affiliation. I may not agree with your opinions, but I will defend your right to have them.

That we all are in need of love, home, comfort, food and medical care.

That when Jesus said “Love one another…” He didn’t finish the sentence with “except”.

We are all in this life together to help our brothers and sisters.

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Small Great Things by Jodi Picoult

Small Great Things

This is such a wonderful book that I’m reposting my review.

I was thinking today of some of my greatest influences, even as a child. Dr. King, Selma, Maya, Mahalia and Dinah Washington.  For some reason, maybe reincarnation? I have always felt a pull.  The first time I heard Dinah sing, “This Bitter Earth”, I cried. When I heard Mahalia sing, “It is No Secret”, I cried.  Maya’s “Still I Rise”, Dr King’s “I Have A Dream”, and when I learned of the events in Selma, I cried.  And recently, after reading Small Great Things.  I don’t cry easily, I really don’t.  And I can’t stand racism, bigotry and xenophobia.

Back to Small Great Things. This book moved me to tears. It is sad, poignant, though-provoking, touching, gripping and compelling.  Without a doubt, this book will be on my favorites shelf.

I have often said that I am “colorblind and a humanist”. I very much believe that everyone should be regarded equally with respect. To me, we are all God’s children. Black, white, gay, straight, Hispanic, Asian, Muslim or Mormon none of it matters to me as neither does creed or religion. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, I believe you should be able to live your life, in peace.

Ruth Jefferson is a labor and delivery nurse at a Connecticut hospital with more than twenty years’ experience. During her shift, Ruth begins a routine checkup on a newborn, only to be told a few minutes later that she’s been reassigned to another patient. The parents are white supremacists and don’t want Ruth, who is African American, to touch their child. The hospital complies with their request, but the next day, the baby goes into cardiac distress while Ruth is alone in the nursery. Does she obey orders or does she intervene?  The infant ends up dying and Ruth is charged with murder and committing a hate crime.

Kennedy McQuarrie, a white public defender, takes her case but gives unexpected advice: Kennedy insists that mentioning race in the courtroom is not a winning strategy. Conflicted by Kennedy’s counsel, Ruth tries to keep life as normal as possible for her family—especially her teenage son—as the case becomes a media sensation. As the trial moves forward, Ruth and Kennedy must gain each other’s trust, and come to see that what they’ve been taught their whole lives about others—and themselves—might be wrong.

A couple of poignant statements:

“I am not a racist, Ruth. And I understand that you’re upset, but it’s a little unfair of you to take it out on me, when I’m just trying to do my best—my professional best—to help you. For God’s sake, if I’m walking down a street and a Black man is coming toward me and I realize I’m going the wrong way, I keep going the wrong direction instead of turning around so he won’t automatically think I’m afraid of him.” “That’s overcompensating, and that’s just as bad,” I say. “You say you don’t see color…but that’s all you see. You’re so hyperaware of it, and of trying to look like you aren’t prejudiced, you can’t even understand that when you say race doesn’t matter all I hear is you dismissing what I’ve felt, what I’ve lived, what it’s like to be put down because of the color of my skin.”

“Active racism is telling a nurse supervisor that an African American nurse can’t touch your baby. It’s snickering at a black joke. But passive racism? It’s noticing there’s only one person of color in your office and not asking your boss why. It’s reading your kid’s fourth-grade curriculum and seeing that the only black history covered is slavery, and not questioning why. It’s defending a woman in court whose indictment directly resulted from her race…and glossing over that fact, like it hardly matters.”

Oh my God. I am guilty of that and I am sorry.  I would never intentionally dismiss what anyone has lived through, especially the black community.  A tweet today from the Women’s March:  “Throughout history, violence has been committed and justified in the name of white womanhood.  Terence Crutcher is no exception.”

I remember Dr. King saying “if you’re not part of the solution, you’re part of the problem.”  And I am left with the question, what can I do to make a difference?

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Bogs, Brews, and Banshees: A Skye O’Shea Paranormal Cozy Mystery (The Skye O’Shea Paranormal Cozy Mystery Series) by Rowan Dillion

I absolutely loved this story. The writing and characters were well written and described. I mean, who doesn’t want a relative to leave you a tidy sum, a pub and a bed and breakfast in a small village in Ireland? You had me at “mo chroí”!

Read the whole thing on a blustery afternoon, which seemed to fit as it was spooky at times. Loved the talking cat Faelan and all the Irish folklore interspersed throughout.

I’ve already started on the second book of the series and hope the author continues as it’s just a delightful story.

I received an advance review copy for free, and I am leaving this review voluntarily.

Rocky Mountain High

I’m so blessed to live in Colorado. Growing up in Florida I missed out on the seasonal changes like leaves: the scents, the sound of the crunch, the amazing colors. A couple of weeks ago, went to the mountains and cried at the beauty.

Framed in Death by JD Robb

I admit to being a huge Nora Roberts fan. I love the majority of her books and have re-read 95% of them, many many times. In fact, I was so caught up in her pseudonym series JD Robb, that after every new release, I’d re-read the whole collection (over 50 books). The last few books though have been kind of meh for me. I am still reading them, of course, because Nora Roberts. This latest one is just another example of why I say meh again. If you have read the series, Portrait in Death was about a guy who wanted to paint portraits and capture their light – you know, after he killed them. Framed in Death is about a guy who fancies himself an artist and also kills his models. The writing is good and Peabody is happy in their new home (with her BF McNab – who I STILL don’t like) and Mavis and Bella (still adorable “‘Ork”) and Leonardo. Of course Galahad and Summerset are present, but the whole thing is getting tiresome and maybe it’s time to shelve the series. Unless Nora can come up with some new ideas. Harsh, I know and I’m sorry, but it’s getting boring.

Where I’ve Been

In the land of grief… first it was my best friend/mentor/guru/teacher Barbara in Sept 2022. Did NOT see that one coming at all. I had “gotten busy” and lost touch for a few months and then I’m wondering why I hadn’t heard from her and I just had a feeling. I just knew. and sure enough, in a blink of an eye, in a break of a heart.

April 2023, found out my drunken POS ex passed from cancer. We hadn’t talked in 20 some years but still, I was surprised that I was actually sad. Not to sound mean and callous, but I’m talking an abusive, lying and cheating, piss the bed and blame me drunk. Still sad, haven’t figured out why.

December 2023 as previously written, lost my beautiful sister Marilyn to a fentanyl OD.

November 23, 2024 – my sweet funny little sous chef cavapoo Jazzy. That one about did me in. She was magical. We sang and danced together for 14 years.

Exactly 7 months later, June 23, 2025, lost her sister Stormy. They both had heart issues and was fortunate to have them live that long. Trying to be grateful but God, please. Enough already. Stormy was a hummingbird in many ways. Always happy and wagging and loving. My heart-dog. Funnily enough, since their passing, I have been dive bombed by many hummers.

I’m talking to a psychologist to help me through the grief. But not reading a lot these days, not posting, obviously cause I like being cheerful. Now, instead, being real with you.

hug your loved ones tighter. Kiss your pet a little extra. and know that time is way too short.

Peace ~

In memory of my sister

Marilyn Sue Penny, born on March 25, 1958 in Miami, Florida, passed away on December 26, 2023 in Conyers, Georgia.

Marilyn’s life was one filled with love and laughter. Her presence lit up every room she entered with her beauty and infectious sense of humor. She lived life to the fullest—large and loud—and brought joy to everyone around her. Marilyn had an unwavering love for the beach where she found solace in its calming waves and golden sands. Dancing was another passion that allowed her to express herself freely while laughing alongside those who adored her.

Her absence will be deeply felt by all who knew her as she leaves behind a legacy that touched countless lives. Her family will forever miss the warmth she exuded through every smile and embrace.

In addition to being remembered for her vibrant spirit, Marilyn also held deep roots within American history as a descendant from ancestors aboard the Mayflower—a testament to the strength and resilience ingrained within her lineage. As a fourth-generation Floridian whose family has resided in Florida since the early 1800s—specifically Key West Ogden—she carried with pride an enduring connection to this land.

The loss of Marilyn Sue Penny leaves an irreplaceable void in our hearts but we find comfort knowing that memories of her vivacious personality will continue to live on through those whose lives she touched so profoundly.

Rest peacefully dear Marilyn—you are dearly missed but your light shines eternally within us all.

The Butterflies of Meadow Hill Manor  

by Stefanie Parks

I am absolutely astounded by the creativity and writing of this debut YA novel by Stefanie Parks. What a beautiful story! Thought-provoking, interesting and heartfelt.

Amy is a 12-year-old girl, sent to live with her Aunt Wilhelmina after a tragic event. She is obviously grieving, dissociating often, and breathing away the hurt feelings in her meager existence. Since the event happened a couple of years ago, she has quit talking. The Manor is allegedly haunted with all kinds of tinkling noises and dream whispers. And best of all, there is Butterfly Magic.

Amy is a sweet girl, haunted by her tragedy, filled with anxiety but yet hopeful and strong. The author has beautifully woven her and created a rich tapestry with colorful characters.

Highly, highly recommend!

Them

by Nancy Cohen

Flummoxed. After reading Them, that’s a good word to describe how I feel.  You have the main character, Chandra Levin. Her mom died 4 months ago. Her father is seeking solace in studying the Kabbalah and Zohar. Their new neighbors appear to be 4 children without parents. Or they could be aliens. There’s a lot of strange lights over there. The 4 “children” are studying American behavior re: race, abortion, the Jonas Brothers, etc. Oh and throw in some reincarnation as well in this 96-page short story.  There’s a lot here, definite symbolism and it’s very thought-provoking. Which is why, I’m sitting here feeling flummoxed. I like Cohen’s writing, as it’s expansive with neat little threads here and there to tug on. Creative and introspective. My only complaint is that since I’m not familiar at all with the Jonas Brothers (other than they’re some sort of boy band), that part for me was a little hard to follow. The ending is going to leave me thinking for a while, and that makes for a good story.

Been Outside: Adventures of Black Women, Nonbinary, and Gender Nonconforming People in Nature 

Amber Wendler (Editor),

Carolyn Finney (Foreword),

Shaz Zamore 

Absolutely fantastic, thought-provoking, interesting collection of stories. The author did a wonderful job putting these together. It was eye-opening and refreshing, more things I didn’t learn in school. “The writers who have contributed to this collection come from many walks of life.”

The stories are tender and beautiful. I was fortunate enough to win this in a giveaway and I’m so glad I did. I highly recommend it. Thank you Amber for putting such an extraordinary collection together. I’m moved to tears and grateful.

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