What I Believe

I believe:

That we are spiritual creatures on a human journey

That most animals are more intelligent than humans

In peace, acceptance and respect of everyone, regardless of the skin color, nationality, who you love, what gender you identify with, religion, or political party affiliation. I may not agree with your opinions, but I will defend your right to have them.

That we all are in need of love, home, comfort, food and medical care.

That when Jesus said “Love one another…” He didn’t finish the sentence with “except”.

We are all in this life together to help our brothers and sisters.

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Small Great Things by Jodi Picoult

Small Great Things

This is such a wonderful book that I’m reposting my review.

I was thinking today of some of my greatest influences, even as a child. Dr. King, Selma, Maya, Mahalia and Dinah Washington.  For some reason, maybe reincarnation? I have always felt a pull.  The first time I heard Dinah sing, “This Bitter Earth”, I cried. When I heard Mahalia sing, “It is No Secret”, I cried.  Maya’s “Still I Rise”, Dr King’s “I Have A Dream”, and when I learned of the events in Selma, I cried.  And recently, after reading Small Great Things.  I don’t cry easily, I really don’t.  And I can’t stand racism, bigotry and xenophobia.

Back to Small Great Things. This book moved me to tears. It is sad, poignant, though-provoking, touching, gripping and compelling.  Without a doubt, this book will be on my favorites shelf.

I have often said that I am “colorblind and a humanist”. I very much believe that everyone should be regarded equally with respect. To me, we are all God’s children. Black, white, gay, straight, Hispanic, Asian, Muslim or Mormon none of it matters to me as neither does creed or religion. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, I believe you should be able to live your life, in peace.

Ruth Jefferson is a labor and delivery nurse at a Connecticut hospital with more than twenty years’ experience. During her shift, Ruth begins a routine checkup on a newborn, only to be told a few minutes later that she’s been reassigned to another patient. The parents are white supremacists and don’t want Ruth, who is African American, to touch their child. The hospital complies with their request, but the next day, the baby goes into cardiac distress while Ruth is alone in the nursery. Does she obey orders or does she intervene?  The infant ends up dying and Ruth is charged with murder and committing a hate crime.

Kennedy McQuarrie, a white public defender, takes her case but gives unexpected advice: Kennedy insists that mentioning race in the courtroom is not a winning strategy. Conflicted by Kennedy’s counsel, Ruth tries to keep life as normal as possible for her family—especially her teenage son—as the case becomes a media sensation. As the trial moves forward, Ruth and Kennedy must gain each other’s trust, and come to see that what they’ve been taught their whole lives about others—and themselves—might be wrong.

A couple of poignant statements:

“I am not a racist, Ruth. And I understand that you’re upset, but it’s a little unfair of you to take it out on me, when I’m just trying to do my best—my professional best—to help you. For God’s sake, if I’m walking down a street and a Black man is coming toward me and I realize I’m going the wrong way, I keep going the wrong direction instead of turning around so he won’t automatically think I’m afraid of him.” “That’s overcompensating, and that’s just as bad,” I say. “You say you don’t see color…but that’s all you see. You’re so hyperaware of it, and of trying to look like you aren’t prejudiced, you can’t even understand that when you say race doesn’t matter all I hear is you dismissing what I’ve felt, what I’ve lived, what it’s like to be put down because of the color of my skin.”

“Active racism is telling a nurse supervisor that an African American nurse can’t touch your baby. It’s snickering at a black joke. But passive racism? It’s noticing there’s only one person of color in your office and not asking your boss why. It’s reading your kid’s fourth-grade curriculum and seeing that the only black history covered is slavery, and not questioning why. It’s defending a woman in court whose indictment directly resulted from her race…and glossing over that fact, like it hardly matters.”

Oh my God. I am guilty of that and I am sorry.  I would never intentionally dismiss what anyone has lived through, especially the black community.  A tweet today from the Women’s March:  “Throughout history, violence has been committed and justified in the name of white womanhood.  Terence Crutcher is no exception.”

I remember Dr. King saying “if you’re not part of the solution, you’re part of the problem.”  And I am left with the question, what can I do to make a difference?

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In memory of my sister

Marilyn Sue Penny, born on March 25, 1958 in Miami, Florida, passed away on December 26, 2023 in Conyers, Georgia.

Marilyn’s life was one filled with love and laughter. Her presence lit up every room she entered with her beauty and infectious sense of humor. She lived life to the fullest—large and loud—and brought joy to everyone around her. Marilyn had an unwavering love for the beach where she found solace in its calming waves and golden sands. Dancing was another passion that allowed her to express herself freely while laughing alongside those who adored her.

Her absence will be deeply felt by all who knew her as she leaves behind a legacy that touched countless lives. Her family will forever miss the warmth she exuded through every smile and embrace.

In addition to being remembered for her vibrant spirit, Marilyn also held deep roots within American history as a descendant from ancestors aboard the Mayflower—a testament to the strength and resilience ingrained within her lineage. As a fourth-generation Floridian whose family has resided in Florida since the early 1800s—specifically Key West Ogden—she carried with pride an enduring connection to this land.

The loss of Marilyn Sue Penny leaves an irreplaceable void in our hearts but we find comfort knowing that memories of her vivacious personality will continue to live on through those whose lives she touched so profoundly.

Rest peacefully dear Marilyn—you are dearly missed but your light shines eternally within us all.

The Butterflies of Meadow Hill Manor  

by Stefanie Parks

I am absolutely astounded by the creativity and writing of this debut YA novel by Stefanie Parks. What a beautiful story! Thought-provoking, interesting and heartfelt.

Amy is a 12-year-old girl, sent to live with her Aunt Wilhelmina after a tragic event. She is obviously grieving, dissociating often, and breathing away the hurt feelings in her meager existence. Since the event happened a couple of years ago, she has quit talking. The Manor is allegedly haunted with all kinds of tinkling noises and dream whispers. And best of all, there is Butterfly Magic.

Amy is a sweet girl, haunted by her tragedy, filled with anxiety but yet hopeful and strong. The author has beautifully woven her and created a rich tapestry with colorful characters.

Highly, highly recommend!

Them

by Nancy Cohen

Flummoxed. After reading Them, that’s a good word to describe how I feel.  You have the main character, Chandra Levin. Her mom died 4 months ago. Her father is seeking solace in studying the Kabbalah and Zohar. Their new neighbors appear to be 4 children without parents. Or they could be aliens. There’s a lot of strange lights over there. The 4 “children” are studying American behavior re: race, abortion, the Jonas Brothers, etc. Oh and throw in some reincarnation as well in this 96-page short story.  There’s a lot here, definite symbolism and it’s very thought-provoking. Which is why, I’m sitting here feeling flummoxed. I like Cohen’s writing, as it’s expansive with neat little threads here and there to tug on. Creative and introspective. My only complaint is that since I’m not familiar at all with the Jonas Brothers (other than they’re some sort of boy band), that part for me was a little hard to follow. The ending is going to leave me thinking for a while, and that makes for a good story.

Been Outside: Adventures of Black Women, Nonbinary, and Gender Nonconforming People in Nature 

Amber Wendler (Editor),

Carolyn Finney (Foreword),

Shaz Zamore 

Absolutely fantastic, thought-provoking, interesting collection of stories. The author did a wonderful job putting these together. It was eye-opening and refreshing, more things I didn’t learn in school. “The writers who have contributed to this collection come from many walks of life.”

The stories are tender and beautiful. I was fortunate enough to win this in a giveaway and I’m so glad I did. I highly recommend it. Thank you Amber for putting such an extraordinary collection together. I’m moved to tears and grateful.

Darling Girls

by Sally Hepworth

Sally Hepworth is a Queen of Domestic Thrillers. Have popcorn ready, dim all the lights and get ready to escape to a farmhouse called Wild Meadows.

Three young women, Alicia, Jessica, and Norah are sisters of the heart. They became friends when they were in foster care, taken in by Miss Fairchild – owner of Wild Meadows. Now they are adults and the cops have questions for them such as whose bones are these buried under the farmhouse?

Hepworth engages several POV, allowing the reader to understand each girl deeply. The girls become very strong individuals and it’s great to see. The ending is full of twists, turns and wow moments. Enough to make Linda Blair’s head spin. Great book for a dark and stormy night.

Thank you to Netgalley and St. Martins Press for this enjoyable read and ARC in exchange for an honest review.

The Truth About The Devlins

by Lisa Scottoline

I have been a fan of Lisa Scottoline’s for many years. She often brings humor and enjoyable characters to her stories. Love the Rosato & Dinunzio Series best and have re-read them a lot!

In the latest book, The Truth About the Devlins, we meet TJ, a recovering alcoholic, the rogue in a family of lawyers. He’s a good guy with some mistakes that his family loves to bring up and shame him with as often as they can. His brother John – a criminal lawyer, needs his help now, for he has killed a client.

The story is cleverly written, multilayered and thought-provoking. The ending is well done and I hope this becomes a series with TJ. Unputdownable!

Thank you to NetGalley and GP Putnam books for an advanced copy in exchange for an honest review.

The Irish Lake House

by Colleen Coleman

Oh, what a joy! New (to me) author writing about one of my favorite places (Ireland) in a deliciously delightful chick lit (and God, I hate that term but as the author uses it, I will this once) novel.

Enter Daisy Clark, a talented book illustrator working feverishly to please her boss (which is near to impossible) and her status driven boyfriend Ash (only concerned with money and appearances). She is in a rut. She had a wonderful relationship with her Mom Rose who tragically passed away when Daisy was a child. No father around so Daisy was shipped off to foster care where she became lifelong friends with Kayla (as a sidekick, she’s adorable). Enter James, a lawyer with news of an inheritance of a house on the Isle of Innisfree, the very place where her Mom was from. Exit London for Ireland, where Daisy can check out the scenery and claim the house. Ash wants her to put it up for sale so they can buy a large home together. Kayla joins Daisy (and thank you for leaving the Ash(ole) behind) as they travel there together. The house is in much disrepair and will take many months to fix it up. Oh darn. The people of Innisfree are all wonderful, friendly and a hoot.

I loved loved loved this story, the characters and while it is somewhat predictable, the journey to the end is soooo enjoyable. I will definitely be reading more of Coleman’s books.

Thanks very much to Netgalley and Bookouture for the ARC.

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